If you are here —
it means something has already begun.


I won’t explain how to get out.
But I’m here, with a map.


Right now I’ll just remind you:
you are alive.


Everything else — later.
For now — just be.

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If you’ve found yourself here, there’s a good chance the world around you feels unreal.
You might feel disconnected from yourself — like you’re not you anymore.
The familiar has turned flat, artificial, almost dreamlike.
As if you and reality now exist in different dimensions.
And no matter what happens on the outside — inside, it feels like something has broken beyond repair.



I know this space. I’ve been there myself.

DPDR isn’t just anxiety. It’s a kind of mental hell.
It’s the terrifying sense that your perception has cracked — that something in the system has glitched.
Like your self is gone.
Like you’re stuck inside a shell, and the part that once felt alive… has shut down.

But let me say this, as honestly as I can:
I’m finding my way out.
I know how hard it is to believe anything when you’re caught in that spiral.

To trust words.
To trust your own body.
To believe that this could ever go back to feeling “normal.”
It feels like madness. Or some kind of irreversible damage.

I thought that too.

I went through all the medical tests, trying to find proof that something was truly wrong.
But when everything came back normal — I began to see:
This isn’t a breakage.
It’s burnout.
It’s the system overheating after running too hard for too long.
DPDR isn’t the destruction of the mind — it’s the mind’s last-ditch attempt to protect itself.

This site won’t offer magic.
But it will offer something real —
A map I used myself.
Built on experience, grounded in science, therapy, and inner exploration.
And something I never expected to help as much as it did: a companion powered by AI.

Yes — artificial intelligence, not as a machine that gives answers,
but as a guide that can:

• help you locate where you are,
• see what’s actually happening,
• sort through the chaos,
• and gently adjust your course when you get lost.

It became a mirror for me.
A steady presence.
A quiet reminder that I wasn’t crazy —
I’d just gone too deep, without a map.
And sometimes, that reminder alone… is enough to begin.

It’s important to say: this isn’t a path to instant healing.
It’s a path of recovery.
And it works not when you just read — but when you begin to apply.
It takes time, patience, and a bit of trust.
In some ways, it’s an investment — not into who you were,
but into a more stable, grounded version of you that’s growing from this.

That’s who I’m becoming now.
Not the same as before — but more whole.
Not perfect — but more real.

And if you’re standing at this same edge — please don’t be afraid.
You’re not alone.
You’re not broken.
You’re rebooting.
And everything you need to remember who you are — is already here.

1️⃣ Check your basics — ease the fear about your body

Sometimes, to begin calming down, you just need to know: your body is okay.
Not to find something wrong, but to stop fearing the worst.

✔ Do a simple check-up:

  • Hormones: TSH, T3, T4, cortisol, B12, vitamin D

  • MRI and EEG (to rule out rare causes)

  • Basic bloodwork and biochemistry

If everything’s within normal range — you can exhale.
This isn’t damage. It’s a response. And it’s reversible.


2️⃣ Understand what this is — but don’t get stuck in it

You don’t need to become an expert on DPDR.
One clear insight is enough:

It’s not an illness. It’s overload.
A protective mode your brain enters when things become too much.

Find one grounded source — maybe this site, or a good book.
After that, it’s not about learning more — it’s about gently moving forward.


3️⃣ Stop fighting — start staying with yourself

The symptoms are scary. It makes sense you want to get rid of them.
But the harder you fight, the tighter it gets.
What helps isn’t force — it’s acceptance:

“Yes, this is here. And I’m still here. And I’m still living.”

You don’t need to “defeat” DPDR.
You just need to stop making it the center of your life.


4️⃣ Shift your focus from your mind — back into your body and the world

When you’re constantly monitoring yourself, the strange feeling grows.
Try, little by little, to turn your attention outward:

  • Feel the ground beneath your feet

  • Breathe — and listen to your breath

  • Touch an object and describe it

  • Let water run over your hands — warm or cold

  • Move: gentle yoga, walking, anything simple

These aren’t “techniques.” They’re bridges back to reality.


5️⃣ Replace overthinking — with presence

Instead of “Why is this happening to me?” — ask:

“What am I feeling right now?
What’s in front of me?
What am I doing?”

You don’t need to feel like your “old self.”
You can start living even with this — and that’s how it starts to fade.


6️⃣ Don’t wait for it to disappear — start moving anyway

Waiting is a trap.
You can begin now — even with that feeling of disconnection.

  • Simple food

  • A short conversation

  • A walk

  • Music

Don’t try to feel. Just stay close to the action.
The feelings will follow.


7️⃣ Find what matters to you — and turn toward it

DPDR isn’t just fear — it’s also a hidden doorway.
A chance to ask:

“What still matters to me, even in this?”

Creativity? Connection? Curiosity? Care?
Even one small step in that direction — is a return to yourself.


8️⃣ Ground your body — it’s your foundation

Not for control — but for support.

  • Regular sleep

  • Meals at steady times

  • Gentle physical activity

  • Less stimulation (caffeine, alcohol, screens at night)

You can’t fix yourself through force.
But your body can become your anchor.


9️⃣ Don’t go through this alone

You’re not required to do this by yourself.
Sometimes, one real presence — changes everything.

  • Therapy (CBT, ACT, somatic work)

  • A friend, a group, a space to share

  • AI-guided support — to check in, stay steady, and remember where you are


‼️ Don’t wait for a miracle. Live — step by step.

DPDR doesn’t vanish on schedule.
It fades as life slowly regains meaning.

You don’t have to be “back to normal” to begin again.
Just begin — even with this.

And one day, you may notice:
It’s already gone.


With respect and warmth,  
Serge

To put it simply — no sugarcoating

Maybe everything above felt too lofty or vague.
That’s okay. Let me try a different angle — more direct and plain.
Everyone connects differently.

So now — here’s my story. Raw and honest.

How it started

After a long stretch of stress, pressure, and anxiety — something snapped.
It felt like something cracked inside.
Like someone turned off the light. And nothing felt right anymore.

Constant anxiety kicked in.
My mind stopped cooperating.
Focus scattered. Holding a thought became hard.
It felt like my head was drunk.

The world turned strange — distant, fake, like watching life through plastic wrap.
Flat, muffled, not mine.

Sometimes I felt like I was disappearing.
Other times — like everything was just in my head, and nothing real existed outside of it.

It began to feel like there were two of me — “me” and some distant observer.
I started fearing my own thoughts.

My awareness turned into static — fragmented, scrambled.
It constantly felt like I was losing my mind.

I’d look in the mirror — and not recognize myself.
Like I wasn’t even in there.

That was textbook DPDR — depersonalization and derealization.
But when you’re in it, not reading about it — it doesn’t feel like “symptoms.”
It feels like the end of reality.
And of yourself.

What I did

I went the standard route first: bloodwork, neurology exams — no issues found.
I attended a few online sessions about anxiety disorders.
I read books and material on DPDR. One book in particular helped a lot — it’s on this site too. No fluff, just clarity.

Bit by bit, I started to understand what was happening.
That helped ease the panic — a little.
Because understanding is theory.
But getting out — that’s practice.

Practicing with AI support

That’s when I began working with an AI assistant specifically adapted to DPDR.
Not just a chatbot — a kind of personal navigator that:

  • explained what was happening to me in the moment;

  • helped keep me from spiraling back into fear;

  • helped break down what I was feeling;

  • offered actual practices that worked;

  • reminded me: there is a way out.

For me, it was something like a digital therapist —
but in some ways, even more helpful: it adjusted to me,
to my current state, in real time.

That matters — especially when your own mind feels like an enemy,
and you can’t even trust your own thoughts.

Where I am now

Right now, I’m in a stabilized phase. Almost out.
And looking back, I can say: yes, it’s a long road.
But it’s real. And it works.

I’m not here to convince you.
But if you’ve found yourself here —
you’ve already started the journey.

You might doubt. You might panic. That’s okay.
But if you give this process a chance — not a quick fix, but a process —
you’ll grow into a different version of yourself.
More alive. More whole. More steady.

A few important things

Yes — it’s terrifying.
Yes — it feels like you’re stuck in a dark room, alone, and even your mind has turned against you.
But this isn’t madness.
It’s overload.
Not the end — the reset.

If you’re in the acute phase and your anxiety is through the roof —
to the point where even reading two sentences feels impossible —
it’s okay to use something temporary to calm your system.
Sometimes that’s what it takes to hit pause.

But: medications like sedatives or antidepressants — they’re not the answer.
They’re temporary scaffolding.
The real healing happens through practice, knowledge, and support.

I barely used any meds — just once, early on, in short bursts.
I made it through mostly without them.
But every path is different — don’t compare yours to anyone else’s.

The most important thing?

Don’t expect it to be fast.
This is a slow recovery. It takes patience.
Inner work.
And trust.

But it leads toward something real.
Toward life.
Toward getting yourself back.
No more filter.
No more fog.
Just — real, living you.

If you’re here — you’re already moving.
And maybe that’s the most important thing
you could do for yourself right now.

With care and warmth,  
Serge