Where it all beganThis project didn’t come from theory — it came from life.
When one of us fell into a deep state of depersonalization, it became clear — the usual methods didn’t work. We faced something that couldn’t be explained in words — and that made it even more frightening. Slowly, we understood: to get out, you don’t need more struggle — you need a new way of seeing what’s happening to you. Not another "technique" — but a shift in perception.
That’s how this project was born: to gather everything that truly helps, and to build a way through DPDR as the restoration of attention — not the suppression of symptoms.
It’s based not only on personal recovery, but also on a study where DPDR is seen as a form of cognitive inertia: a state where attention gets stuck, and perception shifts into a protective, low-sensitivity mode. The research explores the neurophysiological mechanisms of DPDR, the role of body-based recovery, sensory activation, and conscious navigation, and presents an AI-assisted approach for gentle support. The study is published on the Zenodo platform, confirming our authorship and making the model accessible to the professional community.
The key realizationDPDR isn’t a disorder. It’s overload.
When the perception system faces intense or prolonged stress, the brain shifts into protective mode:
- It turns off parts of emotional processing.
- It dulls sensory sensitivity.
- It disrupts the assembly of “I” as a coherent center.
- It moves you into a low-energy survival state.
What you experience as "detachment from reality," "absence of self," or "flatness of the world" — isn’t psychosis, and it isn’t a breakdown. It’s the system’s natural response to overload.
Old approachesWhy typical methods often fail
They try to "cure" what is, in fact, an adaptive mode. Here’s why they usually don’t work:
- Medications can mute anxiety — but they don’t restore perception.
- Analysis and attempts to "understand" often deepen the fixation.
- Psychotherapy helps, but often lacks a phase map — leaving the person drifting between "feeling better" and "getting hit again."
And most importantly — traditional methods often ignore the key factor: neuronal inertia of perception — the tendency of the system to "get stuck" in an already-formed state, due to the weakened ability to shift between modes.
What we did
- We built a model that reflects not just symptoms — but states of attention and perception.
- We identified cognitive inertia as the key mechanism keeping DPDR in place.
- We created practices that don't require force — but gently restore sensitivity.
- We wrote a book — not a manual, but an inner companion.
- We developed an agent — not to analyze you, but to quietly walk with you.
We don’t fight it — we turn attention gently back toward life.
All you need is to take small steps — even if inside you feel nothing.
And most importantly — you are not broken. You are not abnormal. Your system is simply tired.
Why we built this project
Because we don’t want others to be left alone inside this. Because we believe recovery is possible. Without pressure. Without diagnosis. Without fear.
Recovery doesn’t start when everything passes.
It begins when you stop fighting what is.
When you accept this strangeness —
as an invitation to learn how to be with the world, for real.